I dont know where to start..
ini purely curhatan gue, refer to what's happened in kompleks perumahan gue...
Jadi, gue ternyata, lebih tepatnya keluarga kecil gue menjadi bahan pembicaraan yang ajaib banget, though it happened like 2 years ago. but we just found out 3 weeks ago...
1. ini tentang taman umum yang disediakan developer dan kebetulan posisinya persis di samping rumah gue. karena tamannya lumayan padat dengan tanaman yang seperti semak-semak dan gak jelas juga tanaman apa yang ada, akhirnya secara naluri pengen ngerapiin, taman itu kita bongkar dan bikin jadi manis dehhh....ini kejadian pas gue mau pindahan ke rumah baru ini...
ngeliat tanaman yang sudah berubah menjadi semak-semak dan gak ada usaha dari pihak tetangga untuk ngebersihin, akhirnya ya kita bersihin deh....mata gue udah sepet aja, liat kotoran-kotoran gak penting yang berserakan, kayak puntung rokok, sampah-sampah plastik, dll.
oh ya, sekedar informasi aja, gue pindahan ke rumah gue itu, satu tahun setelah para tetangga masuk juga. jadi, bisa kebayangkan, kalo sebenarnya taman itu gak keurus..atau diurus?
anyway, pada saat kita bersihin tanaman yang sudah menyerupai semak belukar...kita nemuin 2 ekor ular...baca ULAR, bukan cacing yaaa....sekali lagi, baca ULAAARRRRR......
selain sepasang ular yang sedang kasmaran itu, kita juga menemukan keluarga curut dengan anak-anak yang lumayan banyak yaaa...(gak ikut KB kayaknya)..plus sampah-sampah plastik yang dibuang oleh anak-anak sekitaran...mungkin disangka TPA kali yaa..instead of taman...
So, kita bersihin dan ganti tanamannya menjadi yang tidak banyak daun-daunan dan jarak antara tanaman juga lebih renggang...
ternyataaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.......ada juga yang gak suka gitu....
diomongin pula...yang katanya harus atas ijin warga sekompleks lah...padahal kita udah minta ijin sama ketua pengurus..lagian juga....seluruh perbaikan dan perapihan taman itu, kami bayar FULL...coba baca sekali lagi FULL....*esmosi stadium 4* dan tiap 2 bulan sekali, kami panggil orang untuk bersihin dan rapiin tanamannya...
sekarang ya, kalau emang ente gak suka, kenapa juga gak ngomong sama kite langsung..kenapa juga harus diomongin kemana-mana...herannn....
yang lebih mengherankan lagi...udah ngomongin gitu yaa...ada usaha bantuin saweran atau patungan gitu masih mending....berlalu aja gituuu.....
wwuuuuuusssssssssssssssssssss............................
lagipula, kalo gak gue rapiin, terus anak gue kepatok ular, situ mau bayarin ke dokter...
lagian juga niyy...kalo niat benerin...dari dulu dongg...udah setahun lewat, juga gak di sentuh...
apa sih yang kamu cari JEUNG.....?
2. masih seputaran taman juga, kali ini tempatnya di depan rumah gue...dan kali ini yang ngerapiin tetangga depan rumah gue...masih juga diomongin...hadeeeuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhhh....situ apa sihh.....
apa yang kamu cari JEUNG...?...
terus terang gue respect lho sama anda, at the beginning...tapi dengan adanya kejadian ini...waduh...jangankan respect...mungkin lebih baik kalo kita secukupnya aja bertegur sapa...
seriously JEUNG..................GET A LIFE!!!!
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
our crazy family
YUP, having two kids, especially if they are BOYS...you have to have extra energy, extra strength and extra everything...
and this is our family....
Me, the mighty mom...
dad, the dyno dad...
with...
andra, the talkactive boy
arga, the mischief-maker :)
we consider our family as the most active family and funky too...
Monday, August 13, 2012
with the scholars
Back in 2010: when the beautiful body still there...hahahaha...now am losing 10kg...woo hooo...
The Important Thing
Dari Umamah RA., katanya Rasulullah SAW. Bersabda: “Hai anak Adam! Sesungguhnya jika engkau sedekahkan kelebihan hartamu, akan lebih baik bagimu daripada jika engkau tahan-tahan (simpan) yang malah akan berbahaya bagimu. Dan engkau tidak akan di cela jika menyimpan sekedar untuk keperluan. Dahulukan memberi nafkah kepada orang yang menjadi tanggunganmu.” (HR. Muslim)
this is what I mean, when I said, you guys forgetting to discuss the important thing. Our security guards has been working with our residence since the date the houses build. and up till now, they still willing to work with us. not only guarding our houses, they also taking care of our children, while they playing outside.
And, shockingly, their salary has not been raised for 2 years. 2 years, ladies and gents...and here your are, disputing small thing...window...parking lot...and laundry....SERIOUSLY!!!! I thought you guys are well educated person, well-understand of sabda nabi in regard to: Dahulukan memberi nafkah kepada orang yang menjadi tanggunganmu. And yet, you forget to raised their salary.....
I strongly suggest that if we have our meeting on the 2nd of September, please DECIDE, raised or no-raised? as easy as you talking about laundry issue...just say YES or NO...simple...
My vote: YES....number of raised: let's discuss....
please dont forget about this people...they've been working tremendously great....
The Drama...
it is, actually very funny things....
but then it became hillarious...
it's all started with the tragedy of making window in your wall...
(in fact, it's against the rule that set up by the realtor of our residence)...
Management Panic:
well, this is what you do, when you facing problems, and shocks and then directly spreading the anxious to other people, instead to the one who caused the panic attack...
how can I say in simple sentence?
you should come to the person who start the problem. try talk nicely to them, and see, whether nice talk can solve the problems. Caused sometime, they dont aware that whatever they do can caused an issue.
and yes, in my understanding, they might not know, that the window tragedy is against the rule..
and this issue should be solved personally, between individu...
Next level to the window tragedy is the parking lot issue...
hmm..cant say much about this...it does need high tolerance and heart to heart talk, between individu, rather than bringing up the problem into the surface...
Yet, some standard need to be set up. if you already talk nicely more than 3 times, and still it doesnt bring some changes, maybe it's time to bring the authority with you...such as pengurus perumahan or pak RT...
and have the discussion more formal.
then it comes the issue of Laundry...
YUP, our loving residence has a very limit space for our personal household belongings. YUP it might distract your attention that the Laundry may ruin your view...your best view from your lovely window...
is there a solution for your neighbour's problem? have you offer solution? or your just throwing your issue to the public and let the world watching...
again, neighbour is our closest relatives that ..perhaps become your P3K...
at first, I was also thinking about that laundry from my neighbours...during 'peak-hour', where the sun shines, my neighbours' laundry were as if jumping into the yard, trying to catch some sun-shines...I said this to my husband..and then, I also thought, if they werent put it outside, where-else can they put their laundry...
I was so lucky to have small space in the backyard, where I can wash and dry my laundry...
anyway..my final thought on this; who cares! (apparently, they do)
and then, the issue goes to small little things...such as the street, the mosque, the open park and on, and on...
why my neighbours? why?
Why all of you, fussing a small stuffs, and forgetting the big one?
but then it became hillarious...
it's all started with the tragedy of making window in your wall...
(in fact, it's against the rule that set up by the realtor of our residence)...
Management Panic:
well, this is what you do, when you facing problems, and shocks and then directly spreading the anxious to other people, instead to the one who caused the panic attack...
how can I say in simple sentence?
you should come to the person who start the problem. try talk nicely to them, and see, whether nice talk can solve the problems. Caused sometime, they dont aware that whatever they do can caused an issue.
and yes, in my understanding, they might not know, that the window tragedy is against the rule..
and this issue should be solved personally, between individu...
Next level to the window tragedy is the parking lot issue...
hmm..cant say much about this...it does need high tolerance and heart to heart talk, between individu, rather than bringing up the problem into the surface...
Yet, some standard need to be set up. if you already talk nicely more than 3 times, and still it doesnt bring some changes, maybe it's time to bring the authority with you...such as pengurus perumahan or pak RT...
and have the discussion more formal.
then it comes the issue of Laundry...
YUP, our loving residence has a very limit space for our personal household belongings. YUP it might distract your attention that the Laundry may ruin your view...your best view from your lovely window...
is there a solution for your neighbour's problem? have you offer solution? or your just throwing your issue to the public and let the world watching...
again, neighbour is our closest relatives that ..perhaps become your P3K...
at first, I was also thinking about that laundry from my neighbours...during 'peak-hour', where the sun shines, my neighbours' laundry were as if jumping into the yard, trying to catch some sun-shines...I said this to my husband..and then, I also thought, if they werent put it outside, where-else can they put their laundry...
I was so lucky to have small space in the backyard, where I can wash and dry my laundry...
anyway..my final thought on this; who cares! (apparently, they do)
and then, the issue goes to small little things...such as the street, the mosque, the open park and on, and on...
why my neighbours? why?
Why all of you, fussing a small stuffs, and forgetting the big one?
Living with your own neighbour
Sesuatu banget....
normally, i was hiding behind my mom's back when it come to communicate with your neighbour, especially the moms...
but since, I move to my own home, now, it's either me or my husband, who's dealing, communicating and interacting with the surrounding...
it wasn't easy for me, as my husband always push me to, at least, say hello to your neighbour. well, as time passed by, I managed myself to interact with the other wives a.k.a moms in the residences.
The residence, consists only 20 houses, in which two house was owned by 1 person. So, in total we're only 19 families living in the area. All of the families are still in young age, well...if you say 40 is young, so it is :)
most of them, the husbands, are working man, and the wives, some are working, some aren't.
I thought it was fun to have a young neighbour, at least they not too young or too old for you...
I thought we can share some crazy ideas and become the most cool wives (or moms) too in the area...
I thought we can hang out together, watch movies, have some coffee, or share some interest....
I thought.....
I thought.....
I thought.....
I have too many thoughts and forget the fact....
YUP...REALITY BITES!!!
along the way, I learnt so many things...I watch...I read...I analyse...my own neighbour...
at the end of the day,...
am glad, that I become the 'super-cuek' woman in the area..at least it could save my but...
but then again...
am not entirely save...eventhough I try to close my eyes with the surrounding..
still, people are talking about you....
can you imagine...say no words, and people talk about you..
say thousands words, and people still talk about you....
unbelievable....
normally, i was hiding behind my mom's back when it come to communicate with your neighbour, especially the moms...
but since, I move to my own home, now, it's either me or my husband, who's dealing, communicating and interacting with the surrounding...
it wasn't easy for me, as my husband always push me to, at least, say hello to your neighbour. well, as time passed by, I managed myself to interact with the other wives a.k.a moms in the residences.
The residence, consists only 20 houses, in which two house was owned by 1 person. So, in total we're only 19 families living in the area. All of the families are still in young age, well...if you say 40 is young, so it is :)
most of them, the husbands, are working man, and the wives, some are working, some aren't.
I thought it was fun to have a young neighbour, at least they not too young or too old for you...
I thought we can share some crazy ideas and become the most cool wives (or moms) too in the area...
I thought we can hang out together, watch movies, have some coffee, or share some interest....
I thought.....
I thought.....
I thought.....
I have too many thoughts and forget the fact....
YUP...REALITY BITES!!!
along the way, I learnt so many things...I watch...I read...I analyse...my own neighbour...
at the end of the day,...
am glad, that I become the 'super-cuek' woman in the area..at least it could save my but...
but then again...
am not entirely save...eventhough I try to close my eyes with the surrounding..
still, people are talking about you....
can you imagine...say no words, and people talk about you..
say thousands words, and people still talk about you....
unbelievable....
Working In Thamrin Street
Yup...
last time, I told you that am working in MLM company, in which I can only cope for 11 months. it was kinda working in traditional market, with hillarious rules...not mentioning your colleagues...
afterwards,
am working as communication consultants and helping our one of the government institutions in developing their communication strategy..
and now,
am working in a foundation, owned by the richest person in Indonesia (according to Forbes Mags). This year is my 4th years working in this foundation, again as their communication person. and I think, it almost reach my comfort zone, and that I should find a new job :)
Target: to retire in my 50 years old-age and have my own business...
am still working on it....thinking ...I assumed :)
owh ya, office is in Thamrin, just like what I dream of. To work in the most prestigious street in Jakarta :)
and yup...happened within 10 years of my working experience...
again, live is damned gooooooddddd.....
last time, I told you that am working in MLM company, in which I can only cope for 11 months. it was kinda working in traditional market, with hillarious rules...not mentioning your colleagues...
afterwards,
am working as communication consultants and helping our one of the government institutions in developing their communication strategy..
and now,
am working in a foundation, owned by the richest person in Indonesia (according to Forbes Mags). This year is my 4th years working in this foundation, again as their communication person. and I think, it almost reach my comfort zone, and that I should find a new job :)
Target: to retire in my 50 years old-age and have my own business...
am still working on it....thinking ...I assumed :)
owh ya, office is in Thamrin, just like what I dream of. To work in the most prestigious street in Jakarta :)
and yup...happened within 10 years of my working experience...
again, live is damned gooooooddddd.....
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